I Wish I Was A 1950s Stepford Wife!
As a writer and blogger I often find myself struggling between writing pieces that are genuine and deep vs. writing what I think people want to read. The hope is that one's writing will fulfill both objectives.
In a dream world, most writers would spend their days writing about whatever they wanted and get paid. Perhaps a totally absurd and defininately unsellable novel about a stapler that comes to life? Or a self-indulgent overly dramatic memoir in which you expose the secrets of all your family and friends? Maybe a bizarre and twisted nonsensical screenplay about spies in space? How about a completely uncensored blog in which you sound off about everyone one and everything you hate? Whatever it is that makes your writers heart go pitter patter, you'd hope everybody would want to read it.
But unfortunately not everyone wants to read the stuff you want to write. If you aren't aware of your writing you may offend and alienate potential readers. I'm not saying to dumb down your writing voice or to be untrue to your craft, but let's face it sometimes as writers we have to write about things we don't find interesting, important, or even ethical because, well it may pay the bills.
So how does one keep their sense of integrity while still making a living off thier art? My talented writer friend Brandy Barber directed me tot his wonderful article about pursuing your passion and your art, and learning to be smart about it, so you can make a living off it.
For more great tips and inspiration on writing, visit http://writetodone.com/
Also for a great book on inspiring the writer within, check out Writing Down the Bones. Author Natalie Goldberg so eloquently explores the love of writing and the need for a writer connect with themselves.
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Divorce rates would be so much lower if women would actually give some of this a shot. I think what is overlooked the most when people poke fun at these things is that this list was also produced at time when it was assumed that a man would be a real man, as well. The man's list would certainly include things about not troubling your wife with unnecessary stresses, about standing up for your family and having a backbone, and about being responsive to your wife's emotional concerns. It's funny that people deride these kinds of "old fashioned" viewpoints, yet can't seem to understand why their lives and marriages fall apart.
Words of wisdom. Particularly the "Be a little gay" thing.